Comparison of a (not) Sibling

Well, Somehow Teddy refer someone as my "brother". I'm sure you know who's that someone is. Sometimes being said things like "oi nong, never dabao any food for your brother ah?"; or "eh u never go and find your brother?"; annoys me.
Being nicknamed as a "sibling" of someone, meaning you have something common between both of you and that someone, and to be compared with such person is the exact thing that is unpleasant. I've been wanting to say this for quite sometime but haven't got the chance to do so, due to distractions like "heroes", work, "la tale", photoshop, CCAs, etc. and same goes to the topics that I've jotted down on my phone just in case if I forgot about the idea hence forgotting what to write.

After I put in some thoughts, there are actually some common things between both of us..
But after I rethink it again, from those common things, different lines can be drawn to distinguish us:

1. Stone-headed: he freaking doesn't want to lose in an argument (esp. abt who's action was wrong in dota), and neither do I. Sometimes, I get to a point where I always feel that I am the irrational one, but I just kept arguing because is fun to try to shut his big mouth up. I think, he thinks that he's always right, though sometimes I think so for myself too, however if it's with someone else, I'll go to the gray area and try to make it a win-win situation.

2. Sloth: He's freaking lazy! And so am I!!!!!! I'm seriously really grateful since at least for university, my parents still can afford the fees (only after Tuition Grant and Fee loan), and although I'm not as hardworking to the extent that that My parents won't be spending any cent on me anymore, I wish I could, but I haven't. But there's this conscious effort in me to want to apply as an RA to relieve on hostel fees, want to apply for for the book grant(financial aid) but my parents didn't want me to apply on those grants. If I were given a scholarship, I would try my best to keep it (mushy hehehe, say only can do or not). Has he?

3. Glutton: Look on how much he can eat and I could eat! Quoted from myself, "who cares about being fat, what matters is I'm enjoying my life. Food is and enjoyment."
Although I'm a glutton, I also still know paiseh when people offer me food, I would pretend to reject it first then accept. I would still consider although it is free, should you keep the principal "free food is not to be wasted". Well, he didn't even control his food until he said,
"hey, do I look slimmer now?"
"Oh yeah, how did you do that?"
"No more money to eat"..
It clear that he didn't even control his expenditure on food shown by a box of ferrero rocher, snacks, regular supper, etc.

This also leads to our fourth similarity/difference:
4. Spendthrift: I was/am very very spendthrift: especially when I lose stupid money for my lost handphone and camera in my first year. Spoilt headsets, etc. I spent a lot on stupid snacks, cooking materials, junk food and whatsoever as well. At least my money is still maintained! I get less than what a scholarship recepient (him) gets you know! He spent all his money on what I also can't get it anymore.

5. Dog: As a guy, of course sometimes, we want to get attention from girls, sometimes we are blinded by their beauty and we promise to do whatever they ask: just like a loyal dog.. I'm also a dog, but only to two kinds of women: my mother and my lover-to-be(or someone I like so much). Not every girls that exist! No matter how cute/nice/pretty the girl is, if I can't help, I'd apologize and reject their request for assistance. I don't do things like take their request and after that throw that responsibility to someone else just because you are not in the condition to do it.

6. Courtesy: I'm a very courteous guy, and he is as well, only to girls.. Too courteous, acting to close (acting as if you are really close a particular person). Me on the other hand, I will act accordingly to how people treat me: if they are nice to me, I'd be nice to them and vice versa. I discriminate, but in a very normal way.. He does in a sexist way and I believe that makes it very annoying to the girls' boyfriends (if they have one), and it also makes the situation awkward if the girl is a confined one. Though his "friendly friendly" thingy to the girls sometimes do make him closer to the girls, but I guess, the girls would see him as "some guy who just want attention and I'm just being friendly".. In my opinion, he has the intention of flirting with everyone
When asking for help from other friends, I think twice before rendering myself dependant, and I don't ask as if any guy would just help me in despite any conditions.

7. Self conscious: I don't waste my time challenging Aldo or Edwin to play 1on1 Dota. What do you waste your time for when the winner's already clear?
He did win once from Edwin (simply of luck) because they were playing random and deathmatch and edwin got into a very disadvantaged situation. If they were to compared by skill, 100 years won't be enough for him to beat Edwin in serious mode. I know my place, I don't need to waste time.

8. Pride: (Dota) Well, self esteem is a good thing to boost your performance. BUT, I don't get big-headed for over a week if I've got an ownage in dota just because I've got an easy hero! Or managed to kill him a few times (seriously who can't?). Well, he would be so full of himself in an ownage or even when he kills you for only 2 or 3 times. Different case from killing Aldo or Edwin, since he's our group's pro, but..

9. Responsibility: same with the "dog" part. I don't give promises that I'll be at a room at ALL TIMES, so that someone can leave his things in that room even when he's abroad for a week. At times where he needed to go somewhere else, he just left the responsibilty to us just like that, trying to persuade us not to leave so that someone could guard the room. We had no choice but to stay.

10. Annoying: Okay probably I was/still am annoying. But I do, again, make conscious effort to introspect myself and I'm open to feedback. That's why please tell me if I lack something intrapersonally. Well....I'm not sure whether he's going to change or not, but let's be positive, so I do hope he does, since the world would be beautiful if everything is peaceful.

Well, it's not a coincidence to have quite some similarities here but still each individual is unique. And the fact is I don't like to be called a brother of his kind. That's why I was a confused why would mike compare himself so much to him and called him his brother..

Now now, please stop calling him my "brother"